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By ~Harem~ Submitted by ~Harem~ Date: 2008 Jun 07 Comment on this Work [[2008.06.07.22.25.12697]] |
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So you bought something because it looked soo good. It wasn't your size and it didn't fit. But there wasn't another one like it. So if it's too small you'll take it home and let out the seams. if it's still too tight - You'll remove the buttons and cut a few slits. and if that doesn't help maybe you can just diet until it fits. But on the other hand if the garment is too big You buy it anyway - even though it's not the right fit. Why ? Because it looks fantastic. it sparkles, it gleams it smiles back and fairly takes your breath away. So what if it's 3 sizes too big. Buy it anyway. You can wash it in hot water and hope that it shrinks. If that doesn't work you can put pins in it and wear a belt. Oh your ideas of making it fit are limitless. But ten years from now - it still doesn't fit. And you have become so exhausted and tired of trying to make it work for you. You don't believe in returns and you've foolishly convinced yourself that there is not another garment on the rack that is as good looking and good feeling as this. WRONG You've made your own prison you've forged your own cage You've tied your own leash you've become your own slave You're mental deluision that only this woman or man is what your life needs and that only he can bring you true happiness make your life bright but the truth is the oppposite you've sealed your own plight So why do we do this when it never did fit ? There's so many garments that line every store you're thinking there's less when in truth there is more I have been married 4 times and the only regret that I have in my life is that I spent too much of my life with the wrong men. It's like buyinng a piece of clothing that really doesn't fit - but you won't bring it back, or get a different one. So you struggle with the discomfort of it being either too tight or so damn big - that you look like a lost blob in it. The rack is full of other better fitting clothing - but I was so busy trying to alter this one - and force it to fit and look good, until one day, I realized - I was wasting my time. When the fit is right and the chemistry is good - the passion never dies - but only gets stronger with time. I know. I've been there and done that> This time I did it right. I quickly dumped all the wrong fits, and held out until I found a perfect fit. As a woman, you should know that clothes shopping can be fun. And a good fit - makes you look and feel like "magic". Happy Shopping. ~ Harem ~ ` |