Some young women actually anticipate the wedding night ordeal with curiosity and 
pleasure! Beware of such an attitude! A selfish and sensual husband can easily 
take advantage of such a bride. One cardinal rule of marriage should never be 
forgotten: GIVE LITTLE, GIVE SELDOM AND ABOVE ALL, GIVE GRUDGINGLY. Otherwise, 
what could have been a proper marriage could become an orgy of sexual lust. 
	--Rith Smythers, from Instructions And Advice For The Young Bride, 1894